We live in a world where we are being taught that dreams are the great driving forces that take our life ahead. In fact, this is a great reality to an extent but we need to be realistic when we dream as the proposers of dream theory do not impart any restriction to dream. This can lead us to fantasy dreams, for example all of us know that we cannot fly like birds even though we do dream it intensely. Thus, we need to drive our driving force in the right direction to gain success in life. Here are a few suggestions to achieve success in life.
As mentioned above we need to realize our dreams in all the sectors of our life. Make sure that your dreams are diversified in all the sectors such as career, beauty, relationships, family’s future etc. Once you are finalized with your dreams, try to identify the causes that pull you from materializing your dreams. If you can identify it in a better way, the chances of you reaching your dream destination are more. The next step to success is fixing deadlines for the realization of your dreams. While dreaming you can have short term goals, midterm goals and long term goals according to the extent of deadlines. While fixing deadlines, be aggressive and reasonable. Always make up your mind with a positive attitude and whisper yourself that you can achieve success in realizing your dream. Famous novelist Paulo Coelho made it clear in his most famous novel Alchemist by writing “……When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” You can depend on various energy sources to maintain that positive attitude in you. The energy source could be your God, a good friend, your parents or even your God father. Such an energy source can work as a support source in problems.
Being positive is a basic requirement to achieve success in life and maintaining positive thoughts is a great caliber. You don’t need to worry if you feel that you are lacking that quality as it can be developed with practice. Always find only positive sides from others and ignore the negative sides of people around you. Never say or think negative about negative words or images. Always maintain a considerable distance with people who spread negative energy. Remember, the presence of positive people around you brings considerable positivity in you. Try to find the God’s will in your pain rather than blaming God and think twice before you deliver a negative comment about someone. If the situation demands your comment, make it in a softer way. Don’t forget that negative comments are potential weapons to destroy someone’s life. Be tolerant as the reactions on intolerance raise the adrenaline level in human body which is not good for heath. Always try to be calm and never get addicted to pressure. When you are in tension close your eyes and remember the face of your life partner or the person you love most.
Motivate people with positive strokes as appreciation is a good tool for relationship building. It adds a lot of value to both the speaker and listener. It increases the chemical level of herritonin and oxitoxin in human brain so never leave an opportunity to appreciate others. Start your day with a good morning wish to God and sleep with a good night God. Think of a day where you start your day with smile to God and continuing it with a smile at office and you go to bed at night with the same smile on your lips.